Thursday, March 08, 2007

Meaning - Friendship to guys?!?!?

Friendship is one of the most precious things in life. The best friendships that you have are usually with people of the opposite sex. Just because you are more free and there are no heirs. But what happens when people misunderstand and want to take it further? You loose a lot of your very best friends. I am sure many girls face this problem. I doubt for guys its as bad.

How is it that two people can start out as friends and then one misunderstands or just basically wants things to go further than friendship? And finally not end up talking to that person? It really doesn't make sense. If those people really like the other person so much they should talk to them & be a good friend to them for life. Of course all guys react differently in such situations but this is the basic gist.

Guys there is such a thing as friendship & you really need to start realising that friendship is an important part of life as well as any other serious relationship. Some of my best friends are guys or should I say past best friends. That seems to be the problem. To a girl she doesn't fancy as many guys & mostly when she meets a guy, she is looking for a good friend and nothing else.

So please guys before you fall in "love" with a girl make sure she likes you too and that things can definitely work out!

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3 Comments:

At 9:18 PM, Blogger Rajesh kumar said...

Guys always misunderstand friendship as love..
Gals always misunderstan love as friendship... ;)
Enna panrathu pasangalum eppa thaan lifela settle aagarathu ?

 
At 10:03 PM, Blogger KD. K Bodhi said...

Huh! Why would I even want to talk to a girl if am not interested in her? I FIND them boring.

And I think this is the case with most guys, whether they accept it or not.

 
At 10:57 PM, Blogger cutefreaky said...

I cant agree more with this post
but...
not all girls are looking for a "friend". I know girls who equally fantasize a friendly hello from a guy to be a 'proposal in disguise'.

The basic curiosity about the opposite sex is one of the main reason for this kind of behavior from guys ( and some girls). THis needs to be changed. When we think our society could have brought this upon us, let's try to be better parents or better aunts/uncles to the future generations and let them know friendship is more imp. If every kid in the household grows up seeing Mom's guy friends and Dad's girl friends, this could become a reality in maybe 2-3 decades ;-)

tata
sukku

 

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